There’s definitely a thin line between love and hate. I’ve heard the expression and seen the movie by the same title.
Previously I failed to see the connection that is our ability to hate and love comes from the same place. (ha ha what a fool, I think to myself as I totally ignored that expression as a silly meme.)
All of the times I was feeling an immense joy and love with my husband is nothing compared to the amount of pain I have felt from our arguments and sometimes sheer disrespect towards each other.
We as humans are wired to remember the pain longer and more often then we are the joy, even if the joyous times outweigh the heart break/pain.
I discovered that by sending my love and the best to my husband as in wishing him a great day and the best of luck in all of his ventures I am also sending myself love and well wishes.
Why? because if you’re a couple your partners success is also yours and vice versa, their love and concern for you is in their best interest.
So even though that thin line between love and hate will continue to exist in all of us, we (husband and I) have decided to live on the side of Love. Staying on the side of love and using the thin line as a guide to to keep us from getting lost.
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